Introducing

Coaching and the 6 Pillars of Growth

Where your next life starts

 

✨ Ready to feel clear, energised, and purposeful again?

Our coaching journeys support women to reclaim joy, create change, and step fully into their next chapter.

 

Beyond today - how would you like your future to look, feel, Be?

If you are anything like me, having a purpose in life that you can pursue is what gives your day meaning. It inspires you from the moment you get up, through to when you are ready to switch off and have some personal downtime. And the down time is really important too.

But… it is not always easy to work out what that purpose is, how it fits in with who you are, or how you can even get there!

If this is resonating with you in some way, and you are at that point where you want to do something about it, it’s time for us to have a chat!

Reach out today. Let’s see if we can organise something to get you started.

 

💛 Why I Do This Work

Like many of the women I work with, I’ve wandered, doubted, restarted. I know what it feels like to crave more — and not be sure how to begin again…

I’ve travelled this path in preparation for you. 

Are you ready to join me in a freer, more joyful and meaningful life?

You have what it takes. 

The 6 Pillars to a Life full of Meaning and Joy

Pillars are essential structures that support us in whatever we are building. 

In the case of our transformative coaching practice, our pillars are the structural changes we make to enable our future selves to live our best lives. And our future selves may not be that far away – it depends on how far you are from the person and life you want to become, as well as how tightly bound we are to our current selves and lifestyle. 

Becoming our truest, fullest self will no doubt involve change – and change is hard, which is why having your coaching guide and accountability partner is so valuable to you. We will be there every step of the way.

 

Our goal is to set you up for your version of a life of meaning, joy and fulfilment.

Pillar 1 – Meaning

We explore where meaning is in your life at present, expanding and exploring where else meaning is waiting for you. In its largest form you might also think of this as life purpose.

Pillar 2 – Joy

Even a life full of meaning can leave us feeling a little empty when we do not also have ways of experiencing Joy in our everyday moments. Joy lights us up and helps us to fully experience life.

Pillar 3 – Permission

Be a good girl, put others first, do what you are told, don’t argue, work hard.

With so much restraint on our earlier lives, we now explore what it means to redefine our own ideal lives.

Pillar 4 – Releasing

It’s time to start letting go of behaviours and beliefs that no longer serve us, but instead restrict our ability to realise our full potential.

It’s time to release that which no longer serves us.

Pillar 5 – Mapping

With all that we have explored and done so far, we are now ready to start mapping our path forward. Practical strategies, accountability and support to empower you on your journey forward.

Pillar 6 – Maintaining

Now is the time to reflect on all that you have achieved so far, and what is and is not working so well for you. This final stage is all about ensuring that your practices and strategies are sustainable and working well for you.

 

What’s involved?

Over 6 months, we work together – one on one – to discover your future life vision, path and walk with you on your journey to realise your potential and feel your best.

Whilst each experience is unique, we follow a general program aligned with our 6 Pillars for a more fulfilling life:

👑 Private coaching sessions

👑 Sacred space + Resources

👑 Personalised EFT and Meditation

👑Community connection and expert support

👑Tools and practices to help you implement and maintain change

Valued in excess of $5,900

Queen Be personal transformation programs

💚Emerald Queens

Community, Course and Momentum

This is our core membership and personal growth space.

Grow and thrive beyond mid-life to create your next, best life.

 -> Private community access,

 -> live events and recordings,

 -> office hour sessions,

 -> expert sessions,

 -> group accountability, and

 -> transformative course pathways.
 
+ Monthly community “gatherings” to welcome and to problem solve.

Next cohort June 2025.

$150 per Month (min 3 months)

 

💙Sapphire Queens

Group Coaching with Depth and Impact

Includes all elements of our Emerald Queen membership and personal growth space.

PLUS VIP Membership Upgrade:

  • group coaching sessions and hotseat sessions each month

By application and interview; new cohorts run 2 times per year.

Next cohort, May 2025.

 

$2,500 for 6 month package

🤍Diamond Queens

Bespoke 1:1 Coaching with Tanya

Includes all elements of our membership PLUS personal coaching.

PLUS VIP Membership Upgrade:

  • copy of our very own Queen Be Planner.
  • private, one on one coaching sessions focusing on your area of choice (leadership, life, business and/or personal transformation).
By application and interview when available.

$5,000 for 6 month package

Who Am I

I know this path well…

 

Hi! I’m Tanya. A mum, business owner, coach and so many other roles in life. My life purpose is to help others, just like you, to realise their potential in life and to bring out their best. Discovering my life purpose actually turned out to be the easiest part. Actually bringing that purpose to life has been definitely character building. I’ve taken wrong turns, lost sight of the goal, denied, wandered in circles… you name it, I’ve tried it out.

Now that I’m here, I want to not only fulfil my own purpose, but in doing so help you discover your own!

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I’m a firm believer that each of us has a purpose in life. I also know it can be damn hard working out what that is and even when you do… it can be tricky finding the path that will help you get there.

Our mid-life is a huge transition period for all of us – regardless of menopause symptoms or not. Biologically speaking our brains are shifting out of “Needing to do what it takes to belong” and into what I like to think of as “Making a Difference, My Way”.

It can mean that we get a bit stuck in the gap between what we have done in the past, and our future selves.

You might be asking yourself…

“What is this future self, and how do I get there?”

“What about all the important things I do… I can’t just leave them behind…can I?”

“My family still needs me. I can’t just abandon them for some selfish need for self expression!?!”

“How do I even start?”

I can assure you, it will all be okay.

This isn’t about throwing out the baby with the bathwater (unless you want to). It is about discovering the excitement, the passion,  and the energy that lies within you already.

Sometimes it just about getting unstuck in our minds, and the rest will follow.

Would you like to explore what this might look like and how I might be able to help you?

 

✨ Your Future Self Is Waiting

You’ve carried a lot. You’ve accomplished a lot. And now—it’s your time.

Coaching with Tanya offers a safe, transformative space to reconnect with your purpose, energy, and dreams.

Let’s uncover what your next chapter could look like. Together.

Introducing your Coach, Tanya Rutherford.

Founder, Creator and Woman In Charge of Learn Grow Become and Queen Be.

Tanya Rutherford is an empathetic leader, transformative coach, and dedicated facilitator passionate about empowering individuals to learn, grow, and become the best version of themselves. As a Coach, Tanya draws on an extensive background in personal development, leadership, and mindful learning strategies to support people in navigating life’s complexities—whether it’s through self-discovery, career growth, or building resilience.

Tanya’s approach is compassionate and empowering. She provides the support people need to explore their potential while fostering independence, self-awareness, and practical strategies for real-life transformation. Her work spans diverse areas, including brain-based learning, growth mindset cultivation, social learning practices, and holistic well-being.

Qualifications and Certifications

Tanya’s depth of knowledge and expertise is reflected in her comprehensive list of professional accreditations:

  • Certified Professional Life Coach (Transformational Embodiment)
  • Feminist Coach Accreditation
  • Certified Conquer Coach
  • i4 Neuroleader Practitioner – About my Brain Institute
  • Chartered Manager (Chartered Associate Fellow) – Institute of Managers and Leaders Australia and New Zealand
  • Global Social Entrepreneurship – Philanthropy University
  • Accredited GENOS EI Practitioner – Genos International (Issued Feb 2015)
  • Accredited Practitioner Everything DiSC – Intégro Learning Company (Issued Feb 2015)
  • Accredited 360 Degree Review Feedback Assessment Consultant – Talent Tools (Issued Jan 2011)
  • Extended DISC Accredited Consultant and Trainer
  • Accredited Leadership Coach – Growth Coaching International Pty Ltd (Issued Jan 2010)

Education and Academic Credentials

Tanya’s strong academic background underpins her expertise in leadership, communication, and learning strategies. Her qualifications include:

  • Master of Business Administration (MBA) – Leadership and Communication (Deakin University)
  • Bachelor of Business (La Trobe University)
  • Graduate Certificate in Tertiary Education (CQUniversity)
  • Graduate Certificate in International Development and Environmental Analysis (Monash University)

 

Professional Approach


Tanya’s work is centred on meeting individuals where they are and guiding them toward where they want to be. She believes that every person has the capacity for growth, especially when provided with the right tools and supportive space to explore their challenges and aspirations. Her programs—like the Learn2Learn initiative and Queen Be community—are designed to facilitate learning, build confidence, and encourage self-reflection, all while acknowledging the complexities of modern life.

Whether facilitating a group workshop, coaching one-on-one, or presenting at events, Tanya brings warmth, knowledge, and an unwavering commitment to helping others discover their strengths and navigate change with clarity. Balancing her professional work with her role as a mother, she understands the importance of flexibility, connection, and lifelong learning.

In short: Tanya is more than a coach—she’s a catalyst for change, committed to helping individuals reclaim their resilience, confidence, and sense of purpose.

"Coaching with Tanya was awesome!

Tanya was energetic and passionate and it was infectious. She was able to see through my excuses, calling me out on a few things and helping me set my bar higher. It was exactly the firm but friendly approach I needed.

Since  our sessions I have become much more focused and energised. It really helped me to be held to account. What I’ve noticed since is that I have a much clearer sense on direction which has allowed me to make more strategic decisions, like turning down work I really didn’t want to do – creating space for some really exciting opportunities that have since come my way!

A big part of my focus and energy is how she helped me to find ways to confidently, authentically and genuinely promote myself.

Tanya, I can’t thank you enough for sharing your expertise with me. You have incredible skill at helping people find clarity in the complexity of being human. Anyone who is struggling to reach for the stars and find their way forward will benefit from being coaching by you. You are professional, warm and engaging as you help each person find their potential and act as their personal cheer squad as they smash their goals.

Thanks so much,

Kate.”

"Tanya is easy to talk to, gives good, sound and easy to follow advice that really made a difference

I found Tanya to be kind, empathetic and she inspired me to think differently. I always felt relaxed, listened to and confident to undertake the suggestions we formed during our sessions together.

We focused on the areas I was really struggling with and talked about ways to approach things. I realised that I wasn’t too far off the mark with many of my concerns and I just needed to take a slightly different approach. These sessions really helped to feel more comfortable that my gut feeling was right and that sparked confidence in putting some new approaches into action.

I really appreciated these sessions.”

Christie.